Why Do Men Go to Strip Clubs?

The average guy isn't going to have sex with a stripper in my experience. Yes there are some that do, and there are some strippers that are prostitutes. But in the clubs I have been to, that seems rare. I went to one club at least once a week for 3 or 4 years and was only offered sex with a stripper twice. Once for cash ( I declined both offers by the way) and once for drugs, and the drug offer was just an offer to "Party" with the implication that I would enjoy the party. The person wanting drugs thought I was a drug dealer because one of the girls I talked to a lot was into coke. In truth, the girl was a cousin to one of the people I went to school with, and I knew her from outside the club, which is why I hung out with her. That being said not all entertainers are into drugs, but some are. But to get back to sex with strippers, they are there to make money, not meet men.

Another reason we liked going was to show off for our friends who didn't go to strip clubs often. I could go into the club and be treated nice by the girls, making my friends think I was some kind of big shot up there.

I know a lot of business is done in the clubs. Guys bring clients or other work related people into the clubs. Most serve at least a nice buffet at lunch and it's a relaxed way to talk over business.

So ladies don't think your men are cheating just because they go to a strip club. In my opinion it's much easier to cheat, by meeting a girl in a regular bar. You could even go with him and see for yourself, it probably isn't as bad as you think it is. Most strip clubs encourage escorted ladies to come inside and have a good time. I hope you have enjoyed this article on why men go to strip clubs, on Associatedcontent.com

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Guys, Don't read this. The Wize Old Man is sure he'll be unwelcome by management of most strip clubs for letting this out but you know as well as he does that there's less sex in a topless bars than there is in a regular bar.

Ladies, forget it. Your man ain't getting it there. Nope. The Wize Old Man has been in hundreds of strip clubs and not once has he gotten off in one. And, just in case your definitions of sex is the same as our former President, that includes oral sex. Hell, even the cigars are just for smoking.

On a slow night, an average stripper at an average club will pocket $200, on a good night $1000. And, no shit, I've seen guys spend over a grand on a dancer and still go home alone. And you think they'd be interest in your man? Ha! Frankly, most of them would be more interested in you than they would be in any man.

Let's see, $1,000,000+ for a building, lights, sound equipment, furniture just to open a club. Then the hassles from right wing Christian extremists picketing. Government agents crawling all over the place looking for an excuse to shut you down and you're worried the owner is running a brothel. Get a life! Men are visual and like to look. Not much different that buying a Playboy video, just more expensive.

Where you should be concerned is if your man hangs out in one of the local "meet" markets. The Wize Old Man has seen more connections there is one evening that he has in years of going to titty bars.

Don't believe me? Check it out for yourself and give your man a treat at the same time. Just visit the nearest topless bar with him. Hey, maybe you'll learn something that can spice up your relationship. And, if you want to be really, really sure, just ask your man to grab a dancer's breast during a table dance... just be prepared to leave with him immediately after that. But it is an effective way to make sure he can never go back to that club! LOL.